I watched an ad on Facebook today. The message was that we each make ourselves up, that we get the chance to be who we want to be just because we want to be it. It was an ad for Make-up. The ad featured a very attractive woman who switched from role to role, whether it was business owner or fitness instructor or party-goer. In each scene, she was in control of the situation, all eyes were on her. Her make-up was flawless, and at the end of ad, text rolled across the screen reading, "You are who you make up." This is an idea that is consistent in our culture today. We fixate on the idea that we are not constricted by our position. We tell our children that they can be anything. Is this idea right? Is it healthy? We live in the land of opportunity. We love to tell stories of change, where drastic metamorphosis-style changes occur to those who are lost, broken, poor, desperate, and even the despicable. In our stories, they become anyone they want to be, leaders, rich, strong...